A place where we’ve all spent some
time. Win, lose or draw there are lessons to be learned, challenges to accept
and life lessons to be gained. Crossroads will test the value of your
relationships and meter out the lessons required to establish the true
connection between what you say you want from life and the sacrifice that
you’re prepared to make to achieve what you say.
When
you are clear about who you are, and have an understanding of what’s
important to you, it makes your situation more manageable and your
decision making much easier. Now you might be thinking to yourself that’s
easier said than done. That your current situation is such that in the here and
now you’re clueless as to which way to go. You’re anxious, tummy churning,
having sleepless nights and just not yourself, how on earth can you be expected
to make a decision for your greater good under these circumstances.
Whether you are contemplating leaving a job, starting a
business, changing careers, getting married, ending a relationship or starting
a relationship having a clear understanding of your values, boundaries and deal-breakers will serve you well. The crossroad you find yourself at now is your
opportunity to make one of the most important decisions that you will ever
make. Lean not on your past, who you were or what you did or did not do. Focus
now on who you have decided to become. Make this decision consciously, make it
carefully and make this decision from your power and not your pain.
Will there be fear in making a decision? Yes. Will that fear
have to stop you in your tracks? No. Is there a way to navigate this fear? Yes.
As in all things we have choices, we can look at fear as (Face Everything
And Run or Face Everything And Rise) the choice is yours. Now you may be
tempted to say that’s easier said than done and I would be inclined to agree
with you to a degree. However if you were to look back at what brought you to
your current situation, take a good look in the mirror and be true to self you
would be able to trace a pattern or patterns of behaviour.
When we consistently work towards our
greater good, stepping out from our comfort zones we begin to see the world and
all the opportunities that it presents for us. It’s then and only then that
we’re able to take the leap of faith with confidence and enter into space that
reflects our passions, desires and potential.
In closing
crossroads need not be frustrating. We are to focus on the outcome and not the
obstacle.
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